tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-54013673755070846152024-02-07T12:55:33.927-08:00The Grass Eaters Society of North AmericaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-50086837601521407162013-12-01T08:26:00.002-08:002013-12-01T08:26:22.870-08:00Best of luck to our married brothers<h5 class="uiStreamMessage userContentWrapper" data-ft="{"type":1,"tn":"K"}">
<span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3,"tn":"K"}"><span class="userContent">The only functional marriage is when the wife worships her husband.<br /> <br /> The ideal marriage is mutual love; However the marriage has ended the very second either party becomes bored.<br /> <br /> The woman becoming bored has devastating consequences such as paying alimony, losing half your stuff, ect.<br /> <br /> I personally wouldn't get married; However I wish the best of luck to our brothers that choose marriage.<br /> <br /> I hope their wives continue to worship the very ground that her husband walks on.<br /> <br /> Best of luck to our married brothers.</span></span></h5>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-35653327899909128892013-05-21T15:45:00.000-07:002013-05-21T15:45:50.523-07:00 Pua is part of the misandrist dating advice distraction Everyman has the instinctive ability to seduce women effortlessly; However, not all men are successful at seducing women.<br />
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Women place the utmost emphasis on a man's looks before all else including game.<br />
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The affections of men have value to women; However, PUA's are willing to pay any price to give away their valuable affections to women and constantly works on developing an endless list of talents, personality traits and social skills to impress women. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-36364604686446509402013-05-09T08:53:00.000-07:002013-05-09T08:53:02.881-07:00Foreign women can also be trashy attention whores<iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/A2O-1xfdoBE" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-55409378576032411742013-04-25T17:14:00.000-07:002013-04-25T17:14:14.379-07:00 A pick up artist from simple pick up makes a girl very uncomfortable<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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We humans tend to be predictable creatures whenever someone says something against the herd.<br /><br /><br /> We take what has been said as a direct attack against us.<br /><br /><br /> This is the one of the oldest tricks in the book.<br /><br /><br /> Anyone remember Femitheist Divine?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-63475506413930552112013-01-27T11:57:00.001-08:002013-01-27T11:57:37.202-08:00Mgtow fourms registrations now open <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Also, I'm not an "MRA" for a reason. I've been fucked
over by men more than I have been by women. It's no wonder why the
phrase "fucked over" even exists. The only clear difference I noticed is
that women get a pass when they're fucking a man over.<br />
Basically, I've never given a fuck about women and by the looks of
things I don't need to. The government does more than enough for women
(and ironically, it's still not enough).<br />
As a man, I have to look out for #1 because no one else will.<br />
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As a man, I have to look out for #1 because no one else will.</div>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-33699368413692029622012-12-21T02:05:00.001-08:002012-12-21T02:05:34.231-08:00MOHO Man on his ownThis is a verison of a video already posted by Dmizzy.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-80022673984304017332012-11-18T04:13:00.001-08:002012-11-18T04:13:16.099-08:00I added equality canada to my list of linksI heard about equality canada from the niceguy's mgtow fourms a.k.a mancoat.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-30915213291838433592012-11-15T16:49:00.006-08:002012-11-15T16:51:16.756-08:00Elmo falsely accused of rape<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: red;"><u> <span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">I scanned an interesting news paper article and rewrote the text for readability</span></u><u><span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">.</span></span></u></span></span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> A few questions about Elmo his young fans won't bother asking</span><br />
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<b>New York</b>- <span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">First, Big Bird became an unwitting player in a presidential debate that argued for clipping his wings. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> Then came word the actor who plays Elmo would take a leave of absence amid an allegation he had a sexual relationship with a 16 year old boy - an accusation that was withdrawn the next day.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> The happy band of Muppets on Sesame Street has faced the sort of hot spotlight you might expect for the rowdies of Jersey Shore.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">Too often, it seems, the show has confronted hairpin detours through the mean streets of politics and scandal.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">But the show's producers can take solace in one simple fact: Their target audience remains blissfully unaware, even on Seasme Street, everything's not always A-OK.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> And despite the innate curiosity of children, there are many questions not being asked this week by Elmo's most devoted fans.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> For instance: " What made someone accuse Elmo puppeteer Kevin Clash of having sex with him when he was under-age, then recant his accusation a day later?"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> Elmo's youngest devotees would instead more likely wonder, " Who is Kevin Clash?"</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"><br />By now, every grownup who didn't know his name already is acquainted with Clash's longtime role in voicing and animating Elmo.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">And after the tide of media coverage earlier this week, he recognized as a 52-year-old man who, for the first time, publicly acknowledged he is gay.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">Clash also swiftly denied his accuser was under-age when they had their relationship.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">Sesame Street, said its own investigation bore out his claim that the relationship had been between consenting adults.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">Clash had gone on voluntary leave from the show when, Tuesday afternoon, the former lover, now in his twenties, withdrew his charge.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;"> Neither Sesame Workshop nor Clash has said when he might return to the show.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">But presumably he could be back soon, with his young fans none the wiser. Until than, their charming fantasy can be preserved that Elmo isn't really a puppet but a living, breathing little red monster.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">That's because in recent months Sesame Workshop, with Clash's participation, has been working to identify a backup puppeteer for Elmo.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "Courier New",Courier,monospace;">Just as a successor is being sought for Jerry Nelson, who died in August after decades as the man behind Count Von Count.</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-20230439995152925112012-11-08T09:08:00.001-08:002012-11-09T00:59:30.991-08:00Self responsibility; The MGTOW WayInstead of saying "It's my fault" say "I can only control my actions"<br />
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The words have the same meaning but inspire different emotions.<br />
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11/ 09/2012- Update: Everyone after me: "I promise not to repeat things other people say!"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-39561494823728478462012-11-01T04:01:00.000-07:002012-11-01T04:01:03.458-07:00Non feminist voltron<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401367375507084615.post-44744907816206391432012-10-16T09:54:00.002-07:002012-10-16T09:54:14.833-07:00Interesting read on parental alienationhttp://www.mgtowforums.com/forums/mens-general-discussion/11358-why-do-bpd-npd-mothers-sabotage-their-kids.html<br />
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This is Simpsonsdidit from the niceguy's mgtow fourms a.k.a ManCoat and I'm reposting something interesting i saw.<br />
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I never actually looked into a Shrink4Men but it seems to be about as good as Menwhoareabused.com <br />
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Interesting article on Shrink4Men on why mothers often sabotage their
kids' chances at success in school and life. I recognized many of these
behavior patterns in both my kids' moms.<br />
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<a href="http://www.shrink4men.com/2012/10/02/why-some-borderline-narcissistic-and-histrionic-mothers-sabotage-their-children/" target="_blank">Why Some Borderline, Narcissistic and Histrionic Mothers Sabotage their Children | Shrink4Men</a><br />
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I've seen this with my daughter's mom. She always squaring off against
teachers, daycare workers, and administrators. Sometimes she has been
justified, but most times she just does this for the hell of it.<br />
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<b>1) Exposure:</b> If and when the BPD/NPD parent has exposed her
asshattery to a teacher(s), other parents, coaches and/or school
administration, she may <b>push to change the children’s school.</b> One
could argue that the BPD/NPD is embarrassed, but many of them appear to
be quite shameless — and relentless. More likely, her mask of super
mom, single martyr mom or victim of my POS ex-husband mom has slipped
and <b>she has revealed which parent is the actual problem.</b><br />
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After the BPD/NPD parent has exposed her difficult nature, she will
often concoct some reason why the “children” need to change schools and
get a “fresh start.” <b>Once the teachers et al know the true source of
the conflict, the BPD/NPD can no longer conduct smear campaigns and
blame shifting nor can she control the narrative.</b> Oftentimes, this is the real reason behind frequent and/or multiple school changes.
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I think most of us know how this one goes. They get joy out of inflicting as much pain on you as possible.<br />
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<b>2) “Winning”:</b> During and after a divorce or break-up, the
BPD/NPD wants to “win,” which typically means inflicting maximum pain on
you for “abandoning” her <b>(even if she initiates the break up).</b>
Oftentimes, this individual weaponizes shared children and engages in
parental alienation. She may also try to impoverish you by using the
courts to extort as much child and spousal support as possible. She
equates “winning” to hurting you and taking or destroying anything or
anyone you care about or love and that includes the children.<br />
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For example, a former client’s ex is trying to block their eldest child
from attending the best school in their area, which happens to be a free
public school (grades are good enough and they won the lottery).
Instead, the ex wants to keep the child in an expensive private school.
Why? She manufactured some very lame reasons about it not being fair to
their younger child if the older sibling is able to get a better
education. <i><span style="color: red;">They know it's bullshit, you know it's bullshit, but you can't reason with her.</span></i><br />
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In reality, it’s about the ex gouging this guy for as much money as she
can. Even if she doesn’t see a penny of it, she wants him to pay and
keep paying. <b>A BPD/NPD ex often equates the amount of money, child support and assets she can extort from you with her sense of worth.</b> <span style="color: red;"><b>Bingo!</b></span> Additionally, this kind of individual does not seem to have any qualms about hurting the children in order to hurt you. <b>As you probably already know, hurting the children is often the very best way to hurt you.</b> <span style="color: red;"><i>Ex-Wife LOVED this tactic.</i></span>
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Standard control-freakery here.<br />
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<b>3) CONTROL:</b> The BPD/NPD is the decider. She believes she is
entitled to unilateral control over the children. She often sees the
children as her property and you are expected to pay a Golden Uterus
rental fee for the rest of your life. Even if the court awards joint
decision making regarding schooling and medical issues, the BPD/NPD will
typically do her best to withhold information and cut you out of all
major and minor decision-making — that is until it’s time to pay the
bills for her unilateral decisions. You are then expected to pony up.
Immediately.<br />
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Ultimately, you may be at cross-purposes with a BPD/NPD ex. If you are
advocating for the children’s best interests, she will be argue and push
for the opposite. Why? To show you who is in control. And if the
children get hurt as a result, she will blame you. <span style="color: red;"><i>It's never her fault... never!</i></span>
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To most of us, this is old news. But to newbies/lurkers, if she
acts childish and immature before she has kids, she isn't going to
automatically mature once the babies come. <br />
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<b>4) Children shouldn’t raise children:</b> A BPD/NPD is often
described as a child in an adult’s body. Emotionally and psychologically
speaking, this is often true. These individuals can be incredibly
immature and seem to be stuck at an early age of emotional development. <b>Many
of my clients who share a child with a BPD/NPD mother watch in
amazement (and relief) as their children surpass their wives in
emotional maturity, empathy and problem-solving skills.</b><br />
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There’s a reason our society frowns upon teenage pregnancy and teenage
parents. Morality and religious beliefs about premarital sex aside, the
simple fact of the matter is that children have not reached the optimal
emotional maturity or intellectual capacity to be parents. The same is
true of parents who are children in adult bodies. <b>Personality
disordered and/or emotionally immature parents frequently parentify
their children (i.e., makes the child responsible for meeting the
parent’s emotional and/or physical needs), which is a form of child
abuse.</b> <span style="color: red;"><i>I see this happening right now with my step-son, as mom doesn't have a man in her life.</i></span>
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Haven't had to deal with this one much yet, but I'm sure it's coming.<br />
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<b>5) Sibling rivalry:</b> A BPD/NPD mother is often jealous of her
own children and sees them as competition for attention, love,
admiration and resources. <b>The possibility that her child may surpass
her scholastically, in attractiveness, in popularity, in physical
fitness, in athletic ability, etc., can be very threatening to a BPD/NPD
mom.</b> The opposite can also be true. For example, a mom who sees her
child’s success as a reflection of her worth and pushes her child to
succeed to the point of abuse (think Tiger Mom or <span style="color: red;">Honey Boo Boo</span>).<br />
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Sibling rivalry for one’s child can manifest in several ways. For
example, your BPD/NPD wife “tattles” on the child and takes pleasure in
watching you mete out punishment for misbehavior, a BPD/NPD sets up the
child to get him/her into trouble, feeding the child a <b>steady diet of fast food/junk food/processed foods to make the child fat so mom can seem skinnier and prettier in comparison</b>
(this is especially common with BPD/NPD mothers and daughters), having a
scapegoat child and a “golden child” and pitting them against one
another, becoming jealous when the child’s father (her ex) buys them new
school clothes, takes them on vacation, to concerts and other special
events and making anything that happens to child, good or bad, about
her.
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Not much to add on this one.<br />
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<b>6) Bad role modeling:</b> A BPD/NPD parent often lacks empathy,
is entitled, rejects personal responsibility for her behaviors, engages
in bullying and intimidation, is dishonest, has the relative morality of
a small child, has chaotic and extremely dysfunctional relationships,
has no sense of fair play and is completely self-obsessed. Enough said.
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This is the one that I CAN'T WAIT to see play out with my
daughter. She is a smart, outgoing kid who is very demanding. Mom
doesn't treat her in an age appropriate manner. There will be fireworks
as my daughter gets older. Once it happens, I plan on making a hard push
to get my daughter to live with me. But even if I don't, I know that my
daughter will pay back her mom in spades for her years of being a
lunatic bitch.<br />
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<b>7) Fear of abandonment:</b> A BPD’s/NPD’s fear of abandonment may
take the form of infantilizing their children or one of their children.
This is a particularly insidious form of abuse and, in some ways, is
the opposite of child parentification. A parent who engages in
infantilization is unable to tolerate her child’s developmental growth
toward healthy independence. Whether it is the fear of abandonment or
the need to be needed, an infantilizing parent is threatened by and acts
to undermine the child’s age-appropriate emerging independence
(Bogolub, 1984).
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In my situation, I can see the train wreck coming between my
daughter and her mom. It's going to be spectacular explosion! I just
hope that it leads to me getting more visitation.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00958240713636726181noreply@blogger.com0