Instead of saying "It's my fault" say "I can only control my actions"
The words have the same meaning but inspire different emotions.
Actually say these words out loud than report back to me.
11/ 09/2012- Update: Everyone after me: "I promise not to repeat things other people say!"
Everyone after me: "I promise not to repeat things other people say!"
ReplyDeleteNow, that's an MGTOW Answer.
DeleteWhen you say those words out loud, do you say it like this?:
ReplyDelete"I can only control MY actions".
Or do you say...
"I can only control my ACTIONS". ?
The idea is to deprogram yourself away from self blame.
DeleteA man can control his own actions but not the actions of others.
The actions of others including women has an effect on man.
Dmizzy once thought me; Blame of any kind is unproductive.